I don’t know what that dream is that you have and I don’t care how disappointing it might have been whilst you have been working towards that dream but that dream in your mind shows that it’s possible.
Some of you already know that its hard, that its not easy, its hard changing your life but in the process of building your dreams you’re going to endure a lot of disappointment, a lot of failure and a lot of pain and moments when you are going to doubt yourself. You’re going to question why this is happening to you, you are just trying to take care of your children and build a life, you are not trying to rob or hurt anybody. For those of you that have experienced some hardships, don’t give up on your dream. The rough times are going to come but they are not going to stay, they will pass.
it is very important to believe that you are the one. Most people raise a family, they earn a living and then they die. They stop growing, they stop working on themselves, they stop stretching and they stop pushing themselves.
A lot of people complain but they don’t do anything to change. Most people don’t work on their dreams, why? fear of failure- what if things don’t work out? And of course, the fear of success- what if things do work out and they can’t handle it?
You spend so much time with other people, getting people to like you that you know other people more than you know yourself. You studied them, you know about them and you want to hang out like them, you want to be just like them and you know what you have invested so much time in them you don’t even know who YOU are.
When you become the right person, you start separating yourself from other people, you begin to have a certain type of uniqueness but as long as you follow other people, you will never be the best the best copy cat in the world but you will be the best version of you. I challenge you to find your value.
It is necessary to align yourself with people and attract people into your life that are hungry, unstoppable and unreasonable. People who refuse to leave life as it is and who want more. If it’s going to happen, then its up to you. Invest in you.
Someones opinion of you is not your reality, you don’t have to go through life being a victim and even though you may face disappointment, you have to know within yourself you can do this, even if no one else can see it, you have to see it for yourself.
No matter how bad it is or how bad it gets you’re going to make it. Represent an idea, possibilities. if you want to go to the next level, you need to invest in your mind – read books, invest time. I dare you to be alone, spend an hour getting to know yourself.
When you become who you are, when you become the person you were created to be, when you become an individual, what you do is you take yourself, you separate yourself from other people.
Get to a place that when people don’t like you, it doesn’t even bother you anymore. You are too focused on making yourself happy and yourself proud.
And if you haven’t started yet, just take the first step.
Best wishes, good health and plenty of happiness for 2018 x